Life is a game
Life is really a game
Let’s play a game with a 90% chance of failing and only a 10% chance of winning. You will be shocked that 90% of chances are to fail in the game and only 10% to win.
Surely, if someone deletes the title and gives this to anyone, he or she will not be able to recognize which game the writer is talking about. So, let’s assume that the title has vanished, and read it as it is.
What would you do if there were only 10 percent chances to achieve victory in the game?
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If I am playing this game, I would try to make that only 10% to my whole 100% and do it till I win it.
I will try the game infinitely until I am dead.
Is this the hardest motivation you are getting, from my side? A hell NO.
The motivation you want is really within yourself. It can’t be defined by me, someone else, or some “pundits” on social media who keep on forcing you to do the hard, but you really don’t know what hard you want to do to live happily and peacefully every time.
I am not going to tell you what hard work you should do to live happily and peacefully. I am not going to give you a cliché framework that will indirectly let you do the hard work you don’t want to.
Step one is feeling better. Step two is doing more of what matters to us. — Ali Abdaal, productivity master.
Ali is a doctor who shares productivity tips and tricks on YouTube as an expert. He has over 5 million followers on YouTube, and he is really awesome. You should check out his contents and subscribe to his channel.
He says that you should feel good about what you are doing, you have to enjoy and most importantly see it as a play. And seeing it and doing it like a play is the key part of doing the hard, as the “pundits” say on social media.
Let me show you a step-by-step framework, yes, a framework but not to do the hard but to make it feel like you are enjoying, playing, and feeling good doing it.
· Feeling good: The most efficient and vital mindset you should obtain is to always have a feel-good mindset. Seek out the stuff that will make you feel awesomely good. So you will always feel like doing more of it.
· Play with it: See yourself as a storyteller who turns a boring task into a fun one. Like, for example, writing a short note on something and adding the masalas and flavors of yours to it.
· Do the new: Can you try to do the work that feels good to you in another environment, like a coffee shop. Give it a try; if it feels bad, drop down immediately. The point is to find something new and feel good about it because you can’t feel good always doing the same thing, if you can, then you are awesome.
· Are you having fun?: Can you do the work with friends or promise yourself a treat at the end? Ask yourself: “What would it look like if it were fun?”
· Enjoy the process: Enjoy the process, not the outcome; focus on the joy that comes from the process and not from the outcome.
· Failure reframing: You just failed on something, imagine that after failing, you are gaining five points rather than loosing them. You will find that suddenly you can do it again and again.
· Don’t be serious: Don’t be serious, be sincere; Ask yourself: How can I be fully engaged in the task without being overwhelmed about getting it 100% right. That will be a sincere approach.
So this is the framework I wanted to share with you and I assure you that this will work if you keep doing it continuously and adapt to the change.
One last thing: I am not a “pundit” on social media :). So you can listen to me, apply these things freely and make your life more peaceful and happy.
A quote from me:
Life is really a game where the victory is uncertain but playing it iteratively with fun makes it certain and enjoyable.
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